The last few weeks have been hard. Yesterday was especially hard. I hate to say it but women can be snarky. VERY snarky. And our Christianity doesn't exempt us from this tendency. When it hits, it hurts. Makes this hard-as-nails city girl feel a little like crying. Friendship in ministry can be a double-edged sword. In my nearly 20 years of ministry, I have learned that I need friends. But, as with many other pastor's wives, one of my biggest struggles with this ministry-life